Friends, Family & Carers Forum

[lovemyboys]

It is hard isnt i, I hate thinking about when I'm old and they wished they had said yes to hanging out with their mum more often

[soul]

My son told me he was going to the movies but wasn't sure of the time - that was two days ago. Shall,have to send him two or three more messages I suppose. Daughter is at  boyfriend's place so it's just the pets and me. Suppose I better get some sleep. Trust that you are feeling much better than you were. Hope your son is over that hurdle for now at least. 

[Shaz51]

hello @lovemyboys, how are you today xx

I have been thinking of you , hope you are ok

[soul]

Hope you get to see your son over the weekend @lovemyboys

[lovemyboys]

@soul moving the discussion over here
Son was hit by his dad last night after they went shopping, went to his house for dinner and J disagreed with what he wanted him to do. So he everything he bought for J he took off him.

[soul]

Showing his true colours - what a scumbag. That didn't take long. How is J after that - utterly devastated I would imagine. And you @lovemyboys - must be feeling awful and shocked.

Hope he doesn't stick around and moves far away. Another planet wouldn't be far enough. Feeling so sorry for you and for J. 

[lovemyboys]

I feel terrible @soul and the fact that he hit him and stood in his of way when he was trying to leave makes me mad

[soul]

Such a bully @lovemyboys. He can't go there again. I hope J sees him for what he is and isn't affected by it too much. And on Fathers Day too - what an abyssmal example!

[lovemyboys]

Makes me feel sick thinking about it @soul He is just so upset

[soul]

One positive is that J found out now what his father is like rather than becoming attached to him and falling even further.

He needs to block communication from him @lovemyboys.