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31 Oct 2022 05:06 PM
31 Oct 2022 05:06 PM
Yep , don't know how we survived without it before @FloatingFeather
Have you got a holiday tomorrow??
Qld don't
What are you planning for dinner and Halloween 😁
31 Oct 2022 05:54 PM
31 Oct 2022 05:54 PM
@Smc, thank you so much for sharing this with us ❤️
I just wanted to say, wow, it sounds like you have really looked at a challenging situation and made decisions for how to get through it. I find it can be really easy for me to feel out of control when so much is happening, but it seems like you've focussed on what you can control.
Also, what you said about needs must when it comes to frozen food and take away REALLY resonates with me. For years I would beat myself up about not doing so much home cooking. But I've also realised that there are times when it is just too hard and exhausting. So letting go of some of my shame about this has been so freeing. I love your tip for sharing a meal-deal and getting something extra. Such a good idea.
I hope the next little while gets easier and some of these decisions really pay off ❤️
Take care, TuxedoCat
01 Nov 2022 11:02 AM
01 Nov 2022 11:02 AM
Hi @Shaz51,
Absolutely - I remember many hot summer nights as a kid laying under a fan that was pretty much useless as it was just churning around the hot air! Love air conditioning on those particularly hot days and nights.
I'm in NSW so no holiday for me today either - I actually didn't know that Victoria has a public holiday for the Melbourne Cup until this year. Half their luck - hope they are really enjoying their day 🙂🐎.
Just had good old spaghetti bolognese for dinner last night - did you have a special Halloween meal? Actually would have been a fun idea.
01 Nov 2022 03:14 PM
01 Nov 2022 03:14 PM
@FloatingFeather we had chicken kebabs on a bed of egg noodles last night
And Mr shaz had put a lock on the front gate so no one could come in and knock on the door for Halloween 😁
01 Nov 2022 03:25 PM
01 Nov 2022 03:25 PM
Kebabs and noodles sounds nice @Shaz51.
That's one way to keep the kids at bay Mr shaz lol. We didn't have any trick-or-treaters - think the kids think we live on the boring street 😉
01 Nov 2022 05:21 PM
01 Nov 2022 05:21 PM
@Shaz51 @Smc I'm soaking green lentils for tonight. My supermarket shop today included red lentils, generic brand tuna and (for a treat) satay tofu. I'll have to start looking for discount catfood for the cat, there's a warehouse near here. My expenses are going to be very high for a while to get the cat started on arthritis treatment and get some help with the house and garden.
01 Nov 2022 05:37 PM
01 Nov 2022 05:37 PM
What you making with the lentils tonight @Dimity
I have sausages out for dinner tonight
How old is your furbaby xx
01 Nov 2022 06:02 PM
01 Nov 2022 06:02 PM
@Shaz51 I'm making a vegie hotpot with lentils tomato onion herbs pumpkin mushroom olives.
I'm not sure but I think the cat is about 18 and he only has 3 legs so there's been a lot of wear and tear on his hip. Hopefully the injections will make him more comfortable and get him moving again. Weekly injections for 4 weeks then every 3 months.
16 Dec 2022 02:50 PM
16 Dec 2022 02:50 PM
Hello @hanami , @Smc , @Former-Member. @FloatingFeather , @Dimity , @Former-Member , @amber22 , @tyme , @Paperdaisy , @moderator , @Faith-and-Hope , @Hope0011 , @Little_Leopard , @Krishna , @Scoo , @Tinker67 , @Emelia8 , @Libra , @pinklollipop15 , @maddison , @Historylover , @Peri , @Exoplanet , @Appleblossom , @Jacques , @wellwellwellnez , @Clawde , @Former-Member , @TAB , @StuF , @Captain24 , @Birdofparadise8
I like making a big pot of casserole which is great for freezing for another meal
Or having leftovers the next day
How is everyone going xx
16 Dec 2022 02:56 PM
16 Dec 2022 02:56 PM
Leftovers for brekkie @Shaz51 is better than making the Big Breakfast Companies richer, or porridge plus nuts and dried fruit.
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