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Hey @creative_writer
It's tough. I feel this ripping of my heart and fabric around me.
I haven't contacted my ex husband but will go and feed his cat tomorrow.
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Mr Rocker is swearing at the tv all day today, he said heโs going for the bulldogsโฆ
.I have no idea what this means but I love watching the finalsโฆโฆ.
My codependency is swamping around my body
1. I want to swear and scream do you have any idea how my poor olโ ex husband will cope today now that his parents are taking over?
2. Ignoring his messages is painful and hard. They are manipulative.
Thanks @Glisten i tip my hat to you. My imaginary hat because in my pyjamas.
@creative_writer Thanks. Co dependency i easier to deal with when you have a name about it.
I am a little embarrassed to write but I using Google Gemini Ai which is free getting tips on dealing with co dependency.
I m owning it.
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Great to hear @PeppyPatti . hope you you will have a best day in next Friday. Problems comes in life. So be strong. you are not alone ๐
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Yes well @TAB
Iv listened to you. Unlike you all 3 of my brother's were abused and they talk to me. Only one has no hope.
I'm sorry that your parents died and they missed out on you.
On my journey, iv learned about generations on paternal side madness from year dot and especially in my case, my Mother's side of women, that all women were like my Mum.
My mum has attempted to claim my sons and still am. Iv learned not to interfere in my sons lived and I think.......I think my youngest son has come back. He rang me twice three times yesterday to arrange coffee and he told me he loved me
My ex husband is a very good man. But his mum and my mum are similar. It just breaks my heart I'm walking away but we need to take care of
ourselves. I was getting suffocated.
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my parents didnt 'miss out' father never saw any good in me though @PeppyPatti I wasted years of my life trying to impress him or get on his good side
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@PeppyPatti @Shaz51 smell that virtual coffee!
good to see this thread going onโฆ all hours of the day
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