@Shaz51 shazzy, I'm glad you got some good advice from your second mum regarding diet. So nice your daughter is coming to visit.  Thinking of you as you remember your mum's passing anniversary.  The grief of loss is always there. I'm grieving not having the extended family together this Easter. It has been 4 years since the incident between my husband and brother in law and 4 Easters where we've been on our own. It will never stop hurting.  Hugs my dear sister...my thoughts are with you 🥰